Explaining masculine and feminine needs. from @youchoosepodcast

The speaker answers the question of what men and women need from each other in a relationship. He defines the core masculine need as feeling desired, admired, and chosen, and the core feminine need as feeling seen, heard, and understood. He then explains how these needs can become inverted when an individual is emotionally wounded, before concluding that once these primary needs are met, each partner then seeks the other's core needs for a deeper connection.

Creator: @youchoosepodcast on Instagram

Video format

Clip

Video outline

  1. Pose a universal question.
  2. Define two opposing principles.
  3. Introduce a complicating twist.
  4. Provide a synthesized solution.

Narrative framework

The Duality & Inversion Framework

Narrative framework logic

A complex topic is simplified into a binary opposition (A vs. B). Each side's core needs are defined, then a 'twist' is introduced where the roles can invert under specific conditions, leading to a synthesized, actionable conclusion.

Topics: Relationships, Psychology, Communication, Self-Improvement

Concepts: Breakdown

Formats: Clip

Elements: Podcast Setup, Jump Cut, Mood Music

Account types: Personal Brand

Transcript excerpt

Does a man need to give a woman and a woman a man? Simple. The masculine essence and energy we want to feel desired, admired, and chosen. We wanna know that you want us. We wanna know that you're proud of us, and we wanna know that you picked us. The feminine wants to be seen, heard, and understood. They wanna feel like you understand them. You know where they're coming from. You feel their emotions. You're in it with them. You can hold that space for them. What does every guy hear from his wife or girlfriend? You just better fucking listen to me. Tier wanna feel seen, heard, and understood. Listen to them. Look them in the eyes. Face them. Don't talk until they're done talking. Make them feel those things. And the interesting thing is when those things get wounded, when a man becomes wounded or a woman becomes wounded, they flip. And, you know, you have very masculine women that appear to wanna be desired, admired, and chosen. You have very feminine men who wanna be seen, heard, and understood. I've heard gross sales dating this guy, but he's just like, I just wanna talk. I just wanna talk about my feelings because he just never had the chance to properly and healthfully express t

1,831,695 views